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The G-Spot
What and where is the G-Spot? - Spot the G
The g-spot is a part of the female genital anatomy therefore all women have it. The problem lies in finding it and being able to stimulate it. Before Ernst Grafenberg’s discovery of the female g-spot in 1982, sexual intercourse and masturbation for women have targeted the clitoris and the anus as the only source of female orgasm. Even after its discovery, most women’s g-spots have not been stimulated by their sexual partners or by themselves. This is because different women respond differently with different stimuli. In other words, you might have come across the g-spot but you’ve never known that it’s the one.
To most, the g-spot is a very crucial and imperative detour in a person’s or couple’s sexual life. It has been known to make women have multiple and deep orgasms and make women ejaculate as well. Sources indicate that a different type of orgasm is experienced by a woman when her g-spot is stimulated. It produces contractions in one’s uterus which makes the woman tremble while reaching the orgasm.
To aid you in finding and stimulating the g-spot, one thing you must remember is that the g-spot lies somewhere hidden inside the vaginal wall. More precisely, it is directly beneath the pubic bone and is often described as a “spongy yet crinkled tissue” that is less smooth than the other parts of the vaginal wall. Some people describe it as a pea-shaped “urethral sponge” that is found 1-2 inches beside the bladder. To stimulate the g-spot you would need to apply a little more pressure during contact than you normally would apply to the clitoris. When it is stimulated, the vaginal walls swell and the g-spot throbs. This is because blood is pumped into it. When stimulated, a woman often feels the urge to pee. Although, after a few seconds, the urge to pee is replaced by a pleasurable sensation that often results to an orgasm later on.
G-Spot during intercourse
Many have searched and failed. Some wanderers have stumbled upon it but could not frequent it after the first chance. The woman’s g-spot has remained an ever elusive nymph despite scientific evidences of its existence that some have simply succumb to the faith that it plainly is not there or some are just gifted with it and some are not. Of course reading scientific journals and knowing the exact anatomical hiding place of the g-spot does not guarantee its discovery. The best way is to feel your way towards it either with curious fingers or through intercourse (though the former always helps).
Some believe that they do not have a g-spot. However, this is false. Some g-spots are just not as sensitive as others. Whatever the case may be, stimulating the g-spot is not always an easy thing. Arousal is an essential to get the g-spot sensitive. Never underestimate the powers of kissing, necking, petting, and fondling a woman’s breasts. These things get a woman aroused and the g-spot is easier to find when a woman is aroused.
You know you are getting somewhere when…
When you think you’ve found it, it is very important to observe how your partner feels when you rub the spot. Light rubbing or gentle contact with the penis may not merit to anything. You need to exert more pressure by rubbing more or by pumping more when it comes to the g-spot. You’d need to do a lot of experimenting with sex positions to get to the g-spot and to get you excited with sex as well. Effective ones mostly have to do with anal penetration but sex positions need not be limited to the anal. Unless you have a naturally-hooked penis, sex positions that have to do with the woman bending either from the waist or raising her legs and hips can allow deeper penetration. Throughout sexual intercourse, the penis head can rub and stimulate the G-spot when it withdraws from thrusting.
Finding the g-spot is not always as great as you expect it to be, although most women have testified to having greater pleasure and orgasms from g-spot stimulation, most women however find the initial stimulation far too alienating, uncomfortable, and worst annoying. If so, stick with clitoris and the usual vaginal penetration especially if your woman is not all too hyped-up about the idea.
Women initially feel the need to pee when the g-spot is stimulated. This is one of the signs you can follow. Ask your partner what she feels when a spot inside her vagina makes contact with your penis. Often, when the g-spot is stimulated, it throbs and swells twice its normal size. With good practice and a little dash of creativity, you can send your woman in delirious bouts of orgasms and leaving her trembling in ecstasy.
Female ejaculation - Female Squirting
Ejaculation is oftentimes gender-specific and this sexual phenomenon is often appended as a capability only feasible to males. This is not at all to surprising since male ejaculation is often taken as a gauge of manhood and virility. However, a number of modern scientific discoveries contest these ideological claims and have declared the female’s capability of ejaculating.
Where does it come from?
Although there have been no evidences of a prostrate gland in women’s genital anatomy, studies show an area wrapped around the female urethra called the g-spot, an area that when properly stimulated can produce multiple orgasms in a woman, as the one responsible for the female ejaculate. The fluid that comes from a woman during sexual intercourse or any sexual activity is often mistaken as urine. However, studies have shown that though the fluid may have similar characteristics to that of urine, it is not and has been classified as the female ejaculate.
The appearance of female ejaculate
When a woman is aroused, a mucus-like fluid is often secreted by her vagina. The first signs of female ejaculate are the moisture in her vagina and the precipitate sometimes left in her underwear. Often a woman is described as being “wet” when this happens. For most women, the stimulation of the clitoris is enough to make them ejaculate. In fact, the stimulation of the clitoris is an essential phase of a woman’s arousal. The amount of female ejaculate, say sexologists, is dependent upon how much the woman is aroused and how long she has an orgasm. The amount of female ejaculate that a woman is capable of secreting can vary from a few ounces to as many as 2 cups of fluid. Imagine how much that could be. The more fluid is secreted, the less mucus-like and more fluid it becomes.
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